In the eyes of Allah, it is all positive for us. Allah has given us a heart free of charge. He
wants us to worship Him. If He had willed, he could have created us as trees.
He chose for us parents. It rains a
thick white rain and we get raised from the earth like trees. Parents,
children, siblings are tests for us. The family unit is well the society will
be well. None shall be worshipped besides Allah. Noone worthy of worship
besides Allah. Be kind to your parents. He did not say obey them. Decline respectfully.
Some parents abuse their children. People are good, devil is bad. Some people
have bad habits. We are all creatures of Allah. Be good to your parents. Allah
chose to make me through my parents. Let not problems seep to children. Can
also educate parents. You correct someone respectfully. If you don’t correct
people, there will be problems in the society. Don’t go behind their back. If
you made a mistake, it is not the end. You are still a good person. We look at
bad stuff not good. Tell children enjoy school and develop. Don’t stress them.
Only one becomes first. May Allah make the end better. When it comes to big
decisions, make mashvara. Don’t force children to do what they don’t want. Have
a powerful relationship in family. Be
very close to your children. Admonish children in a smart way. Turn off the
wifi. Don’t over penalise your children. Don’t keep reminding them of bad stuff
they did. Remind them of good stuff. Kiss your Children. Want the mercy of
Allah, show mercy to your children. Purpose of marriage: sacrifice, work hard
on relationships. Look after children. Spend time with them. The person getting
married has the biggest say. Facilitate the marriage of your children. If we
can resolve issues in the family, we can resolve issues in the society. Having
siblings is a blessing. Learn to teach your children to play together. Every
child grow at its own pace.
Quran and Hadith are similar to food and water. We need
Allah. The biggest gift we have is that we are the Ummah of Quran. We would like Quran to intercede for us. Quran
is not the decoration. Quran on the wall should be a means of reminder.
During this life we have limited freedom. We need to
recognize the one who gave us this life. We are created so we lead our entire
life as Allah has ordained. For this we have to recognize Him .
Life and death in the hands of Allah. Have mercy on your
parents. Make dua for your parents. Don’t embarrass them by your deeds. Be kind
to them. Don’t be harsh to your
children.
Set limits at home . Respect each other. Both ways, husband
and wife.
Prophet prayed for those who opposed him. Man looks at a creature of Allah and has an
understanding of them. This understanding is affected by circumstances. We respect all the creatures
of Allah. Above 70 is bonus. Engage in dhikr and prostration. Allah is in total
control of us. We commit sin because of our weakness not to defy Allah. First
establish five daily salawat. Allah is instructing us to avoid evil and
immorality. Allah says cut it out. One verse is enough to change our life.
Intentions could be contaminated if we except something in return instead of
expecting allah’s pleasure. Social media has allowed us to multiply sins. We
have bottons that can destroy us. Purify heart. Go back to Sunnah to resolve an
issue. Love of one self means giving itself preference over others. Purify the
heart. Make today better than yesterday and tomorrow better than today. Masses
have lost respect for the leaders. Reason why we losing as an Ummah. Imam,s
work is more difficult than ordinary ppl. Religious blackmail. High rank in the
day of judgment goes for the muadhen.
The one who has been promised jannah equal to the one who is
destined to hell fire? Who is more truthful than Allah?
We hope in Allah alone. Those who believe have special
mercy. Allah is merciful to all, but the special mercy goes to and is reserved
for the believers.
The problem is that we don’t know our Maker