Quranic Verse: Chp. 7 V. 1-3

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Following a certain course is sometimes recommended in the Glorious Qur’an and sometimes it is prohibited.

Among the places where following a certain course is recommended is the following:

1. Following the course of revelation i.e. the Glorious Qur’an. Allah [may He be Glorified] said: “Alif-Lâm-Mîm-Sâd. [These letters are one of the miracles of the Qur’ân and none but Allâh (Alone) knows their meanings]. (This is the) Book (the Qur’ân) sent down unto you (O Muhammad (صلى الله عليه وسلم)), so let not your breast be narrow therefrom, that you warn thereby; and a reminder unto the believers. [Say (O Muhammad (صلى الله عليه وسلم)) to these idolaters (pagan Arabs) of your folk:] Follow what has been sent down unto you from your Lord (the Qur’ân and Prophet Muhammad’s Sunnah), and follow not any Auliyâ’ (protectors and helpers who order you to associate partners in worship with Allâh), besides Him (Allâh). Little do you remember!” (7:1-3)

These verses illustrate the following points:

  • The greatness of the Glorious Qur’an, which is sent down by the All-Wise, Worthy of all praise.
  • The Glorious Qur’an includes all that mankind need for their spiritual and material life. Allah [may He be Glorified] said: “And We have sent down to you the Book (the Qur’ân) as an exposition of everything, a guidance, a mercy, and glad tidings for those who have submitted themselves (to Allâh as Muslims).” (16:89)
  • It was revealed to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) to warn mankind as a whole. Allah [may He be Glorified] said: “And We have not sent you (O Muhammad (peace be upon him)) except as a giver of glad tidings and a warner to all mankind.” (34:28)
  • The commandment to follow what Allah has revealed to His Messenger (peace be upon him).
  • The prohibition of following other than what was revealed to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) such as the saints whom people invoked either besides Allah or in His stead. Allah [may He be Glorified] said: “Surely the religion (i.e. the worship and the obedience) is for Allâh only.” (39:3) He also said: “And they were commanded not, but that they should worship Allâh, and worship none but Him Alone (abstaining from ascribing partners to Him.” (98:5)

 

Source: Qurancomplex

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Part 1 – Fundamental Techniques In Handling People

1 – “If You Want to Gather Honey, Don’t Kick Over the Beehive”

Hans Selye, a great psychologist, said, “As much as we thirst for approval, we dread condemnation.”

“A great man shows his greatness,” said Carlyle, “by the way he treats little men.”

  • Principle 1 – Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.

2 – The Big Secret of Dealing with People

Some of the things most people want include:

  1. Health and the preservation of life. 2. Food. 3. Sleep. 4. Money and the things money will buy. 5. Life in the hereafter. 6. Sexual gratification. 7. The well-being of our children. 8. A feeling of importance.
  • Principle 2 – Give honest and sincere appreciation.

3 – “He Who Can Do This Has the Whole World with Him. He Who

Cannot, Walks a Lonely Way”

William Winter once remarked that “self-expression is the dominant necessity of human nature.”

“First, arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way.”

  • Principle 3 – Arouse in the other person an eager want.

In a Nutshell Fundamental Techniques In Handling People

  • Principle 1 Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
  • Principle 2 Give honest and sincere appreciation.
  • Principle 3 Arouse in the other person an eager want.

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راه هایی برای استفاده بهتر از وقت خود پس از کار

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همه ما در زندگی‌ تلاش می‌کنیم که در کار خود موفّق باشیم. همیشه به دنبال این هستیم که علم و دانش خود را برای رسیدن به جایگاهی بالاتر و حقوقی بیشتر افزایش دهیم. بعضی‌ وقتها این به قیمت دوری از خانواده و دوستان است. ما باید یاد بگیریم چگونه از وقت ازدمن بعد از کار به نحو شایسته استفاده کنیم.

– همیشه در یک وقته معین کارتان را تمام کنید. این به شما کمک می‌کند که برنمریزیتن منظّم باشد. اجازه ندهید امرار معاش شما را از زندگی‌ کردن باز دارد.

– نیم ساعت تنها استراحت کنید. این کار به شما اجازه میدهد درباره روزتان فکر کنید. ما ممکن است به اتفاقی که در محل کار افتاده فکر نکنیم ولی‌ این ضمیر ناخودآگاه مرا مشغول می‌کند. نیم ساعت استراحت با یک فنجان چای یا قهوه جدو می‌کند.

– در آخر هفته، هفته بعد را برنامه‌ریزی کنید.

– یاد بگیرید نه بگویید. در این روزها که وقت خیلی‌ زود می‌گذرد، ما وقته برای همچیز  و همه کس نداریم. پس بیشتر نه بگوییم تا بله. فکر کنیم قبل از اینکه جواب مثبت بدهیم. وقت طلاست.

-سعی‌ کنید روزانه بنویسید. نوشتن میتنود خیلی‌ مسائل مبهم و تاریک را روشن کند. به ما اجازه میدهد به به زندگی‌ از زاویه دیگری بنگریم.

– برای استفاده بهتر از وقت اولویتهای خود را بشناسید. اگر واقعا  چیزی را می‌خواهید، میتوانید به آن برسید اگر نگذارید چیزها و اشخاص کم اهمیت وقت شما را هدر دهند.

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هشت راه برای هدر ندادن صبح

. انرژی خود را مدیریت کنید۱morning

۲. از شب قبل خود را آماده کنید

۳. تا ظهر امیل خود را باز نکنید

۴. تلفن خود را خاموش کنید

۵. در یک اتاق خنک کار کنید

۶. بشینید یا بلند شوید

۷. صبحانه را به عنوانه جایزه برای کار سخت تصور کنید

۸. یک عادت برای هر صبح داشته باشید